It's long been an insult to tell someone they do something (running, throwing, hitting) "like a girl." Young people can be particularly cruel, and insensitive.
I guess it happened at birth, but when it comes to taste, I have none but I'm a good judge at what looks good or not. In other words, if something looks good, I can recognize that. If something looks bad, I can recognized that. But to create something on my own that looks appealing, I'm useless. That's why I need your help.