Here's a message for all married couples and couples in a serious relationship.  It's okay to argue!  If you aren't, something is probably wrong with your relationship.  However, there's a catch.  You can argue, under one condition.

Ann Landers said it best, "All married couples should learn the art of battle".  She hit the nail on the head with that statement.  Battle is an art.  When you lose the art of battle, battle becomes a fight.  It's important to know the difference.

Even a heated discussion between couples should never be "vicious or cruel", says Landers.  A good battle is objective and honest.

May your relationship be filled with love and equality.  Now watch the video.