Have you ever had a woman look you in the eyes and say, "I thought he was going to kill me"? I have, more than once. Domestic violence is all over the news because of the situation involving former NFL running back Ray Rice. That's national news, not local. Many people see it on TV, then change the channel. Asinine comments, mostly from men, are appearing all over social media. I'm here to tell you, it's happening in your hometown.