Moving in together is a big step. Doing it too soon can wreck a relationship. Without delving deeply into my personal life, I must confess I've made that mistake before. There are several crucial things that you should be honest with your significant other...and YOURSELF about. Here are several indicators you're NOT ready to make that commitment.

#1 You haven't discussed finances. Trust me on this one!

# 2 It's a barometer, or test of how strong your relationship is. If you're not sure your relationship is strong, you're not ready.

#3 You haven't had your first big fight. This is a big test. Your techniques for conflict resolution should be clear before you cohabitate.

#4 There's a roommate or "third wheel" involved. Do I REALLY have to explain?

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